What's on His Mind? Get Him to Open Up
By Tina L. Jones

How many times have you tried to get him to open up and talk to you? How many times has the question "What are you thinking about?" been answer with "Nothing?" Do you want to really know what's going on in his mind? Believe it or not, there are ways of going about it without appearing annoying.

For starters, don't nag too much. If you get an unsatisfactory response after you first ask what's going on with him, don't ask again. Funny thing is you may be surprised if he truly did give you the answer. Nothing. It's as simple as that. They are thinking of nothing in particular; nothing of interest, or perhaps nothing that would really interest you.

If something is troubling him and it's important enough, he may just need a little time to think it through before spilling it out. If and when he's ready to talk about it, he'll come to you. There may also be times when talking to you seems futile to him, like if he's asked you over and over again to do a particular thing and you ignore his request.

Though he's frustrated by your disregard for his feelings, he knows there is no point in bringing it up. More often than not, however, it has nothing at all to do with you. So, as difficult as it may be, give him time.

Don't stay stuck on one unanswered question. In the heat of an argument, refrain from pushing him to answer a question he doesn't want to respond to. Think of your own anger at times. Aren't there times when you just don't want to talk about a particular matter without having a chance to think it through?

Be there for him when he does open up. If whatever is on his mind is important to you both, he will come and talk to you at some point. When that does happen, be receptive, even if what he has to say isn't easy to hear. If you automatically throw back at him what he's said, or if you vehemently deny whatever he may have to say about you, chances are he won't open up at all the next time.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones. Tina is part of the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women who want to understand male psychology, how to attract men, and find true love. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

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